“As human beings, we’re mostly wired to judge others based on their habits, what they say and how they say it and even on superficial things like someone’s appearance, consciously or unconsciously, we’re also constantly judging ourselves from the moment we wake up every morning”.
“When you’re in a relationship, you are aware that being intimate with someone comes at the risk of being judged, while it’s normal to judge your partner regarding certain aspects, being in a healthy relationship is all about learning to accept your woman the way she is, once you are overly judgmental and critical of your wife or girlfriend’s life choices, it is only a matter of time before resentment and other negative emotions start surfacing”.
Here are things you should never say to your partner and always remember that you should never make the mistake of being judgmental towards her when it comes to the things listed below.
How many s3xual partners she has had: “It’s not uncommon for partners to discuss their past relationships and s3xual experiences with each other, if she opens up to you about how many men she has been with, don’t hold that information against her, after all, before you met her, you had your own string of unsuccessful relationships and meaningless flings and if you think you won’t be able to deal with her past, refrain from having that conversation altogether but most importantly, don’t make the mistake of comparing yourself to her ex-boyfriends and asking her if they were better in bed”.
Her profession and work timings: If your wife or girlfriend has a demanding job that requires her to work till late in the night, it is your job to be supportive of her career goals, many men are uncomfortable with the fact that their partner has to work late night shifts and our society is quick to judge women who come home late every night, just because she comes home late, doesn’t mean she is having an affair with one of her colleagues”.
Whether she chooses to wear revealing clothes and makeup or not: In the society now, a woman who doesn’t wear makeup or short clothes is not stylish and stale but if she likes to dress up and show off her legs, she is most definitely in vogue or a slut, if you’re uncomfortable being around a woman because of how she wants to look, don’t bother being in a relationship with her.
Her body type: “Women are constantly judged a lot more than men for being too fat, too thin, too tall or too short, before you judge her for not looking like one Nollywood actress or a model, take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror and be grateful for the fact that she has s3x with you regularly”.